Marriage is a very interesting subject, people either run from it, or desire it but cannot possess it. Some couples have faced death just to be together. Others have changed existing laws so that they can be married. For some it is a transient arrangement, but for others it is something taken quite seriously.
|Till death do us... wait, WHAT? I thought this was a weekend thing Johnny?|
|To love and to hold, forsaking all others…|
|Yeah I'm a douche, but i'll ALWAYS get the girl.|
I know others (Women) who are in it for the bling. They don’t care about the guy at all, they want the prestige of wearing a ring, they want to drown immediately if they fall into a pool… their bejewelled hand simply too heavy to keep afloat… They are not in it for the long-haul, and I’m sure at the first sign of trouble – a deal gone wrong… heaven forbid they lose the Swiss Chalet or the Bentley darling! – they will be gone. And they will take half of everything with them.
In South Africa I know of many young people who are
desperate to be married but can’t do so for cultural reasons, either the
families prescribe to tradition and want a hefty “lobola” or the families are
from different cultures and a marriage will be a long and drawn out process –
and quite stressful for both families. Some manage to work their way through
this while others just give up hope.
|I totally love him…OMG - I have the knuckles of a MAN-WHORE!|
|Hee hee! I have no problems with this lobola|
Keeping that scenario in mind I ask this: SEX AND MARRIAGE
- How do those couples keep passion alive for 10, 20, 30, 40+ years…
- If you are married, have you managed to stay happily married and passionate for many years?
- Or, have you also slipped into a comfortable lifestyle of semi-celibacy?
- How did YOU meet / marry your partner?
I know what works for us.
What works for you…